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Psychological Safety + Mindfulness: Are You Mindful About Your Mindset?
đđI just wrapped up Phase 2, of my health journey; a monthâs worth of radiation. I was unprepared for the emotion I felt when I walked...


Autonomy, Love, Vulnerability and Humility.
I love learning about anything related to Psychological Safety. I recently took the S.A.F.E.T.Y. Assessment by the Academy of Brain-based...


The 'C-word' and the Sisterhood.
In this case, the âC-wordâ may not be the taboo word you may think. Itâs the other well-known word that people are afraid to hear. When I...


Friendship Circles.
Circle. Tribe. Group. Bad-Ass-Girl-Gang. Posse. Squad. Ring of Support. Coven. Pack. Community. Clan. Whatever you call it. These. Are....


2023: My Wish For You.
The past few years have taken a toll, it feels like weâre coming out of hibernation. Things are the same, yet somehow, tremendously...


Sisterhood Squad Goals. What Are Yours?
âď¸What are you doing to keep you female sisterhood alive and thriving? Sisterhood Squad Goals â do you have âem? If not, you should!...


đĽImpacts of Female Rivalry: Youâre Not Alone.
đĽThe impact of female rivalry packs a big punch! It doesnât matter if you experience it at work, socially, or from a family member, it...


Mean Girls Suck! Tips For Dealing With Relational Aggression.
đĽşâď¸Female rivalry and mean girls. Itâs more than competition. Itâs the backhanded compliment, fake smile, passive-aggressive comment,...


BFFs At Work? Do You Have One?
âď¸Do you know, what every single woman whoâs shared her encounter of female rivalry with me has said? She felt alone when she was going...


Bystander Effects of Bullying at Work.
âď¸Did you know? 70% of high-performing females in leadership positions feel bullied by other women at work (Houlis, 2018). âď¸Did you also...


Change Blindness: Seeing What's In Front Of You.
âď¸đDo you readily notice new changes that occur right before your eyes? Iâm sure most of us would like to answer that question with a...


Circles Are Endless, But Not All Friendships Are.
đThe rolling waves continuously crash. A pause. Then quiet. Ending with a crescendo. A flow that canât be stopped. An endless circle....


đŁTalking Smack And Chitty-Chat-Chat: Lessons Learned From Fishing.
After a busy, social summer our family recently ended August with a week getaway at the beach. Itâs one of our happy places. A place...


You Do You! Positive Competition For The Win!
Itâs that time of year.... everyoneâs back at school. Where did summer go? I blinked, May turned into September and now both of my kiddos...


Women Who Like Themselves, Like Other Women
Something caught my eye the other day. I was scrolling through social media and read the following question, âAre there benefits to...


Flowers Donât Compete: They Complement Each Other And Grow
All of these beauties came from my garden. Their magnificent colors. Their beautiful differences. They all grow in the same conditions in...


Is An Over-Involved Frenemy Truly Your Friend? Facing Female Frenemies. Part IV
Juliaâs Story: âAnytime anything came up between us sheâd make me feel like I was over-sensitive and blowing things out of proportion....


When We Compare And Compete We Canât Connect.
I was recently thinking that for someone whoâs an observer to my blogs and social media content it may come across that Iâm (only) very...


50 Years Ago: 37 Words
Author note: âI realized after Iâd already written this post that Iâm accomplishing a pretty big personal milestone today. This is my...


The Weight of Society: Showing Up Today, For Tomorrow.
âwe will not be delayed. we will not be masquerade. to the tale of a handmade. we will not let roe v. wade slowly fade. because when we...


Male Allyship + Mean Girls: The Work Perspective
Itâs a known fact that men and women, for the most part, communicate differently. Think of the book series, Men are From Mars, Women are...


Male Allyship + Mean Girls: The Family Perspective
Last Fall I gave my first in-person talk in almost two years. It was exciting to be back with real-live-people, and not at home, on-line...


Hater's Gonna Hate: Shake It Off Baby!
Thereâs a person in my social circle that no matter what I do or have done, itâs perceived with malice. Itâs been that way for years. And...


The Queen Bee Complex: Do You Tear Down Or Lift Up?
Iâm sure youâve heard of the âQueen Beeâ expression? Sheâs regularly thought of as a bitch and an instigator of female rivalry behaviors....
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